How to Love a Black Woman

This may not be popular but I feel that it can be somewhat complex to love a Black Woman. It’s not impossible but it is multifaceted. Although it may be difficult, I must acknowledge that the root of the problem is us, men. We have scarred, abused, let down, under-appreciated, deceived and hurt our women so badly that they have erected such high safety guards that once we scale those emotional barricades as well as the, physical and psychological barriers we are either too angry, too resentful, too stressed or too exhausted to love our women properly.

Today’s Black Woman wears dozens of hats. She is a wife, a lover, a career woman, a housekeeper, a friend, a mother and in some cases the father too. Juggling all of those duties successfully and consistently drains them. At the end of the day she may not have anything left for herself. This can lead to high stress levels, health problems and even death.

Today’s male must be a master at making his woman’s life simpler. He has to be her calming agent and her rock. The recipe is simple. Listen to her, communicate well and often, be affectionate, be a financial contributor, take care of her sexual needs and keep things exciting for her. Most women will agree.

Discussion Questions:
1. When women get hurt in a relationship what road blocks do they put up?
2. What are (5) traits that ideal men have?




The Reunion By John R Williams (The Author)
ISBN-10: 0-9818094-4-8ISBN-13: 978-0-9818094-4-1Publication Date: February 13, 2009Trade PaperbackTrim: 5.5 x 8.5Qty/Case: 32Retail: $14.95Note: Title will ship February 13, 2009

Sean Jiles was very popular at Kensor High School on Chicago 's Southside. His gifted writing ability, common sense and unwavering loyalty gained him lifelong friendships and a suitable following during his years there. After graduating, Sean moves to Dallas , Texas to attend college and pursue his dream of writing and directing stage plays.

While in college, Sean meets Eva Sparks, a sexy graduate student with attitude. They hit it off right away. Things start out fantastic but Sean soon realizes that Eva is more than he can handle. She is insecure, controlling, possessive and insanely jealous. She is a hot mess! In comparison, a far cry from Jade Brown, his high school sweetheart and true love from more than a decade ago.
Now a graduate, Sean has received $100,000 to produce his first major stage play. Between his career demands and problems with Eva, things are absolutely crazy! At the height of his dilemma, Sean receives an invitation to go back home and attend his 10-Year High School Class Reunion . This is great news!

Although Sean's life is chaotic, he will attend. The reunion is sure to be the highlight of his summer. A vacation from Eva couldn't have come at a better time. As exciting as it seems, Sean understands that the reunion will rehash tons of mixed emotions as well as force him to confront Eva and re-examine his failed love with Jade. Will Sean's departure lead him to lost love or send his girlfriend Eva into one of the most frenzied fits of jealousy ever captured on paper? This book will not disappoint!



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