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Thursday, December 03, 2009

What's the worse thing u found out bout a person u were datin?

I asked this question on my facebook a couple of weeks ago and got great responses from friends. Wow! It's just amazing how you can be with a person, but really don't know what's really happened to that person.


Relentless Aaron
Relentless Aaron
that her father shot her mother, in front of her


Sylvia Hubbard
Sylvia Hubbard
Oh wow. Did it affect yr relationship with her?


Sylvia Hubbard
Sylvia Hubbard
The worse i guess 4me: he had attempted suicide 10yrs b4 meetin me w/a gun 2his head but lived.


Shante Moseley
Shante Moseley
That he had been raped by his father and his mother knew and she stayed with the father until he finally left her for a man :O


Author Kanika A Reese
Author Kanika A Reese
OMG these stories. I cant top these. I'd have to create them in a book.


Sylvia Hubbard
Sylvia Hubbard
That's awful deep! That definitely affected his current relationship viewpoints.


Almari Jonson
Almari Jonson
He'd been responsible for a robbery shortly earlier than a date we'd had & the fool was driving around in the same car on our date. Saw him arrested on the news a few days later. *smh* Yes its been 22 yrs and I'm still angry that he put me at risk.


Shante Moseley
Shante Moseley
Yes it did he was soooo, needy and emotional scared, and often talked of killing hisself


Sylvia Hubbard
Sylvia Hubbard
We really never know how blessed we are til we know other people


Shante Moseley
Sylvia Hubbard
Sylvia Hubbard
Funny i dated a guy once then never heard from him again. Few months later i found out he robbed a jewelry store and is now servin 3yrs as we speak. He w


Sylvia Hubbard
Sylvia Hubbard
as a really sweet guy too. Darnit!


Edwin Lewis
Edwin Lewis
They went both ways


Sylvia Hubbard
Sylvia Hubbard
Wow edwin. And was this a good thing for you or a bad thing


Almari Jonson
Almari Jonson
@Sylvia, mine was cute too and I really liked him.


Sylvia Hubbard
Sylvia Hubbard
@almira now he writes me and its just depressin to know things could have been so different.



Sylvia Hubbard
Sylvia Hubbard
Oh lord. With another woman while you were datin him or did HE have the baby?


Shenika Colston
S. C
Long story but with another woman...


Sylvia Hubbard
Sylvia Hubbard
Now that's a book!


Sylvia Hubbard
Sylvia Hubbard
Lord da help!


Shante Moseley
Shante Moseley
OMG, thats awful (((shenika))) hug for u that sounds heartbreaking & painful.



Shante Moseley
Shante Moseley
so true, I will pray for you, stay stronger & remember Jesus loves you


Ben Harrison Parks
Ben Harrison Parks
Now Almari, you know the brother pulled the robbery so he could show you a good time. And just think, you could've been a part of a thrilling police chase and been spread eagle on the ground, part of a spine tingling arrest & everything. I mean THAT'S Entertainment!!! Of course there's the fact that you'd probably soil yourself & wish to commit a homicide... but I guess you can't have everything, ya know?


Alicia Ware-Wilson
Alicia Ware-Wilson
That he REALLY had 5 kids instead of the two he told me about and one of them was my cousin by way of adoption! Small world....smh


Sylvia Hubbard
Sylvia Hubbard
oh dang Alicia. now that brings recollection of the ex who told me a month after the marriage instead of one child, he really had four with three baby momma's.

oh yeah, i was shocked to say the least. And no, The marriage didn't last long


Sylvia Hubbard
Sylvia Hubbard
i must add this has been the most interesting question to boot. I might put this all on the how to love a black woman blog. http://loveablackwoman.com


Alicia Ware-Wilson
Alicia Ware-Wilson
Oh my goodness! Yeah there were three baby momma's in this situation too. That was over 10yrs ago and he swears it was said to protect me (are you really serious)???? He still believes that one day I will give him a chance and perhaps say, "I do" - what a nut case!


Alicia Ware-Wilson
Alicia Ware-Wilson
You should add it to the blog!


Sylvia Hubbard
Sylvia Hubbard
oh kay, that's scary, cuz mine used the same excuse too. His first name initial wouldn't happen to be C would it?

Jessica R. Simmons
Jessica R. Simmons
That he just wasn't that into me.

@Creature1969 
found out my fiance had impregnated his sister when she was 12 and he was 19....of course I backed out of that engagement


@JamesDDickson That she'd been DP'd

@inpraize That everything they told me about their life and their achievements were a lie.

2 people saying something:

MilesPerHour said...

I can't think of anything worth replying. There were women who didn't "fit" me but nothing crazy. Being the person I am I tend to get to know someone a bit before I even had asked them out. I guess I avoided drama by doing it that way. Then gain I lost some opportunities to date some pretty great women too.

Tori said...

That you dated a child molester and just founding out about it. Left your son with him on several occasions and now your afraid he's touched your son.

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