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Monday, February 08, 2010

How to do I handle him being a jerk?

On my quest to become an advice expert, I was gifted with yet another question which I shall answer.

The initial question was:

This guys, I guess we could I rejected him (more like i decline him friendship because he an ***) now he even more an ***. I already try to make peace but it useless. Best way to handle this situation (i even told him he been acting differently and he continue to be rude). Should I just ignore him?




Now remember I'm not a professional. I only give advice in a bias personal experience matter to show my opinion as to how I think things should be done or handled.

Here's my answer to this situation.

Yes, Ignore The Jerk!

My mother told me two things:







#1: Don't have a battle of wits with an unarmed person.






#2: Don't let anyone steal your joy. (Do it to them first, LOL).






You don't have to put up with that. The best thing about life is that you have choices to make and the choice to ignore stupidity and assinine behavior is vitally important to your happiness. Giving him the time of day when he doesn't deserve is never an option to ultimate life long happiness.






Ignore him. Give him a hi, good morning or whatever when you see him. Even smile your best smile like you really really like him.






One more advice: Love your enemies. It makes them so dang-go mad!

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