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Saturday, March 20, 2010

GUEST POST: Want to Know the Secret to Making a Relationship Last? The Secret May Not Be What You Think!

Although it isn't magic, there is a secret to making a relationship last. Nearly all humans desire to be in loving relationships but very few know how to make these relationships last. That's why breakups and divorces are so prevalent. So knowing the secret to lasting relationships will place you well ahead of most people out there, including the person you want the relationship with!

First of all, don't get too hung up on the ups and downs of a relationship. They are normal and should be expected. So why do some relationships weather these ups and downs while others fail? Simple... The secret to a lasting relationship involves saying and doing certain things and behaving in certain ways towards your partner or spouse. Does that mean changing your personality, compromising your beliefs or becoming a doormat? Absolutely not!

By using these powerful action steps, you can actually impact your partner's perception of the relationship and his or her feelings about you as well! In addition to these action steps three things need to happen:

1. Treat the relationship as something completely separate from you and your partner. By treating it almost as a third person it becomes much less about "you" or "me".

2. Most conventional wisdom says a relationship is 50/50 which implies meeting half way. Successful relationships move towards 100/100. This should be the goal. You must be willing to go beyond, especially when your partner isn't!

3. Carry yourself as if you already had the relationship that you want. When you do this it sends powerful messages to your subconscious and can actually begin creating that which you desire.


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