Random thoughts Part 2 from How To Love A Black Woman

Yes another round of what's in my mind today.

Falling in love or the beginnings of a good relationship always feel the best.

Thinking about them everyday, the thought of seeing their face and the wonderful feeling you get all over from just the interaction of them is like a drug - a powerful drug that you want more and more.

But then after a while., you get an immunity in your system. Soon those quips and teases aren't as spicey anymore and the work begins. There's really a relationship and then you're feeling tied down and if it doesn't go anywhere soon, you feel stagnant.

So how do you feel about that?

How do I feel about that?

I feel i have to avoid the dullness in life and try not to succumb to feeling like its work. That is if and when I find someone who is worthy of me.

Lately these thoughts have been going through my mind.

If I decide to get into something real again, would i feel a penchant to fly free once I get what I want?

I'll leave this question unanswered until I discover the answer.

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My son has been going deeper and deeper into his own mind and looking at life.

Since I've never raised a son before and really never had a deep conversation with a man to go back to when he was turning 13, his questions are very intriguing.

Some are:

Did you feel sad when the guy in Terminal didn't have a home to go to? (He was talking when Tom Hanks found he had no country to return to and could not leave the country.

My answer: I felt frustrated for him, but in the end I felt happy because he made a good thing out of a bad situation.

How long does it take a fly to pee?

(Yeah, I was confused about that one) My reply was that I'd have to look it up, but if you guys know the answer, could you leave it in the comments. Momma's don't know everything... just almost everything.

Why'd that guy make his girlfriend do that to the short guy in the Spike Lee joint. (He's referring to School Daze).

My answer: He was trying to think of a way to get rid of her without just simply telling her he didn't want her anymore. Plus some guys think it's cool to be able to tell a woman what to do and know she'd do anything for him.

His return question was: why didn't the others stop him or her?

My reply: some men look to him as an alpha male and no one questions the alpha male.

There have been a lot others and I'm excited yet leery to see where his thinking goes.

If there are more deep thoughts from the son of me, i will definitely let you know. He could either be turning into Ted Bundy or Albert Einstein. He's currently on the fence. LOL.