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Wednesday, October 27, 2010

3 days left - I Am Woman Expo 2010


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I am my Sister's Keeper

 

 

October is "Domestic Violence Awareness Month"



Welcome
to the

"I Am Woman"
Expo 2010


Join us  Saturday, October 30th
to support
women in domestice violence

Keynote Speaker:
Janks Morton

Includes:
3rd Annual
"Real Women Like Us - Redefining Our Beauty"
Fall Fashion
Extravanga

















Positive S.I.S.T.E.R.S. presents::
The 3rd Annual
Real Woman Like Us - Redefining Our Beauty Fall Fashion Extravaganza

eflyer

Join Positive S.I.S.T.E.R.S.

in supporting

The I Am Woman Center!

 Saturday, October 30, 2010
Wayne County Community College
Downtown Campus
1001 W. Fort Street
Detroit, MI 48226

Registration: 8:30 am
Program: 9 am to 4:30 pm
 
Can you tell the face of Domestic Violence? 
     
Experience a day filled with empowering information to support men, women and teens on domestic violence and its impact on our families. Help us eradicate domestic violence from our homes!

Special Guest:
Janks Morton

Enjoy workshops, all-male panels, health screenings, community partners, fashion show, vendors and much more.
CLICK HERE for the full schedule of this FREE event.
 
Register Today at: www.positive-sisters.com

Breakfast and Lunch included!

 
For additional information contact:

Kimle Mitchell
Positive S.I.S.T.E.R.S.
(313) 402-4997






Friday, October 22, 2010

EVENT: I AM WOMAN CENTER invites you to I AM WOMAN EXPO 2010 "You Are Your Sister's Keeper" (Oct 30, 2010)


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I AM WOMAN EXPO 2010

I AM WOMAN CENTER 

PRESENTS

A WOMEN ONLY FILM PREVIEW

 

 

WE NEED TO TALK; AN ADDRESS TO OUR DAUGHTERS

FRIDAY, OCTOBER 29TH, 2010

6-8PM

WCCC DOWNTOWN CAMPUS MULTI PURPOSE ROOM

TEENS AND ADULTS

MEET AND GREET W/ CRITICALLY ACCLAIMED DOCUMENTARIAN JANKS MORTON

 


You are invited to the following event:
I AM WOMAN EXPO 2010 "You Are Your Sister's Keeper"

Date:
Saturday, October 30, 2010 from 9:00 AM - 4:30 PM (ET)

Location:
Wayne County Community College
1001 W. Fort Street
Detroit, MI 48226

 
  Can you attend this event?  Respond Here  
 
For more information click here
 



Just In Case You Weren’t Feeling Too Old Today

I thought this was funny when I looked at it and wanted to share with you....


  • The  people who are starting college this fall were born in  1991. 
  • They are too young to  remember the space shuttle blowing up. 
  • Their lifetime has always included  AIDS
  • The CD was  introduced two years before they were born.   
  • They have always had an answering  machine. 
  • They have always had  cable. 
  • Popcorn has always been  microwaved. 
  • They never took a swim  and thought about Jaws. 
  • They don’t  know who Mork was or where he was from.   
  • They never heard, “Where’s the Beef?”,  “I’d walk a mile for a Camel ,” or “de plane, Boss, de  plane.”
  • They don’t  have a clue how to use a typewriter.

from http://www.laughitout.com/

Monday, October 18, 2010

Monday Morning Motivation - "Wardrobe Malfuntion"

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Monday Morning Motivation

"Wardrobe Malfunction"

Greetings!


When I was in college, I was a member of the Phi Sigma Pi Co-ed National Honor Fraternity.  Each year we would travel to a different state to attend the annual convention.  A few friends and I were in the hallway of our hotel waiting for everyone to finish getting ready for a social event that evening when I decided to break out into an impromptu free style dance routine.  I decided to do a little move that we might refer to as dropping it like it's hot which basically entailed dropping down into a deep squat and coming back up rather quickly, then repeating that over and over again.  While I was doing this move I was singing a line from the song, Tootsie Roll.  "Dip baby dip! Dip baby dip!"  Two dips in, the crotch of my jeans ripped from knee to knee.  Yes...you read that correctly, I said knee to knee because it burst wide open at the seam in an arc that spanned from one of my knees to the other.  When it ripped, it made a popping sound that was so loud that someone came out of the hotel room and said, "What was that noise?"  They had heard the sound inside the room even though the door was closed!  Needless to say, from that point on my nick name was "Rip baby rip! Rip baby rip!"


There are three major wardrobe malfunctions that might occur that can turn a lovely day into a devastating one.  In addition to a ripped crotch I'd say that the other two most common ones would be a broken heel or a major stain.  In my little overactive imagination our wardrobe, or what we wear represents our life or our business.  We come up against setbacks which can be embarrassing or debilitating as well as a major blow to our confidence.


Our heels represent our platform or what we stand for.  It reminds me of a powerful quote, "If you don't stand for something, you'll fall for anything." In business and in life it is imperative that we know what our foundation is and that we stand firmly and strongly upon it.  If it is weak, like the broken heel, we will be thrown off balance. We want be able to walk tall but with one broken heel, that will be hard to do. Depending on when, where and how our heel breaks, we may even get hurt.   These three things translate to the fact that we must be consistent (balance), operate with integrity (walking tall), and have an intentional plan for maintaining physical and psychological safety (because we might get hurt).


The rip in the crotch represents being exposed.  Unfortunately, when it comes to business and life, the better that we do, the more people try to find things that are wrong with us.  Now we can try to tie a coat around our waist, which represents hiding, but that won't change the fact that our crotch is still wide open.  For that reason, the approach that I've found to be most effective is transparency.  "Hey ya'll, would you believe I just ripped my crotch!"  When I train and teach, I've found that people appreciate and relate to honesty.  We are not all perfect and we don't always have all of the answers and that's okay. Therefore I recommend authenticity at all times. 

I also believe that if anyone is going to drop a big story on me, it's going to be me.  You can't blackmail me if I willingly share the information, and if I'm planning on engaging in something that I'm too ashamed to willingly share...then perhaps, I should consider another route.  Even if what you've been through carries a stigma or is looked down upon, you never know how you are being a blessing to someone else who needs to know that they are not alone.


Finally, a stain or your clothing represents a mistake.  As much as we try to avoid them, we all make them and just like certain substances that we soil our clothing with, they are often hard to simply wash away.  In such a case we must look at it as an opportunity to learn.  For example, if I know that my colleague often animatedly talks with his hands, then I know not drink red wine near him when I have on a white shirt.  If we look at that from a real life and business perspective it simply means that we try new things, and if they don't work, we use that knowledge to inform our future choices and decisions.  Don't waste a moment wallowing in guilt or shame.  Take that mistake and count it as a necessary test or trial that was a mandatory prerequisite to your inevitable success.


This week I challenge you to answer the following questions.  What do I stand for?  How can I effectively deal with being exposed (talked about or criticized) in a way that is meaningful for me?  How can I turn my mistakes into opportunities for learning? 


Wardrobe malfunctions are a part of life.  Plan accordingly.
Sincerely,
Monica Marie Jones
The Literary Loft
www.monicamariejones.com
monica@monicamariejones.com
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Friday, October 15, 2010

EVENT : Je'Caryous Johnson's Newest Stage Play is coming to your city!


 







A Message From Je'Caryous Johnson


CAST OF MARRIAGE MATERIAL

Hey everybody!

I'm extremely excited about all the great things that are happening right now, and I am happy that God has blessed me with another opportunity to bring you all another dynamic play with Marriage Material. I'm even happier to hear how excited y'all are to see the play.

With all these good things going on, the devil has been working overtime trying to steal our joy. Many of you are concerned with your opportunity to see the play because of the ticket prices, but I wanted you all to know that we always do what we can to make sure that you enjoy yourself at reasonable price. That's the reason we have kept the same ticket prices for the past 5 years. In recent months, Ticketmaster has added between 10 to 20 dollars in fees and surcharges alone to each ticket.  You can avoid these fees by getting your tickets at the box office. 

Even though the devil busy, I'm working with the full armor of God. I want to make sure that you all have access to the best-valued tickets by offering direct group sales tickets. Through group sales, we can offer you a reduced-price ticket without all the fees and surcharges by getting them at the box office. All you have to do is round up 10 of your best friends, sorority sisters, frat brothers, or church members and make it a night with the fellas, girls' night out, or any type of fun fellowship.

While the devil might be busy, we are enjoying our blessing because "No weapons formed against [us] shall prosper".  I love you all and see you at the show.
Until next time, keep praying, keep loving, keep living, keep playing!

See you soon, 

Je'Caryous 

(SEE "MARRIAGE MATERIAL" VIDEO TRAILER)

Marriage Material Fall 2010 Tour

Waco, TX, Waco Civic, October 28, 2010   ON SALE SOON

Beaumont, TX, Julie Rogers Theater, October 31, 2010  PURCHASE TICKETS NOW

Houston, TX, Hobby Center, November 2-7, 2010   PURCHASE TICKETS NOW

Charlotte, NC, Ovens Auditorium, November 14, 2010  PURCHASE TICKETS NOW

Washington, DC, Warner Theater, November 16-21, 2010  PURCHASE TICKETS NOW


(SEE "CHEAPER TO KEEP HER" VIDEO TRAILER)

Cheaper To Keep Her Fall 2010 Tour


Detroit , MI, Music Hall Center, October 12-17 PURCHASE TICKETS NOW

 

Omaha, NE, Omaha Music Hall, October 19 PURCHASE TICKETS NOW

 

Wichita, KS, Century II PAC, October 20 PURCHASE TICKETS NOW

 

Kansas City,MO , Music, October 21-22 PURCHASE TICKETS NOW


St. Louis , MO, Chaifetz Arena, October 22-23  PURCHASE TICKETS NOW

 

Nashville, TN, Tennessee PAC, October 24   PURCHASE TICKETS NOW


Toronto, Canada, Massey Hall, October 26  PURCHASE TICKETS NOW

 

Albany,NY, Palace Theater, October 27  PURCHASE TICKETS NOW

 

New Haven, CT, Shubert Theater October 29-30 PURCHASE TICKETS NOW


Boston , MA, TBA, October 31 PURCHASE TICKETS NOW

 

Greenville , SC, Peace Center, November 2  PURCHASE TICKETS NOW


Macon , GA, Macon Centreplex, November 3  PURCHASE TICKETS NOW


Atlanta , GA, Atlanta Civic Center, November 4-6  PURCHASE TICKETS NOW


Augusta , GA, Bell Auditorium, November 7  PURCHASE TICKETS NOW


Philadelphia, PA , Merriam Theater, November 9-14 PURCHASE TICKETS NOW

 

Toledo , OH, Stranahan Theater , November 17 PURCHASE TICKETS NOW


Chicago, IL, Arie Crown Theatre, November 18-20 PURCHASE TICKETS NOW


Baltimore , MD, Andrews Hall (Murphy Fines Arts Center at Morgan State), January 27-30

PURCHASE TICKETS NOW


Next year, we plan to take "Cheaper" to New York, NY; Newark, NJ; Miami, FL; Jacksonville, FL; Orlando, FL; Cleveland, OH; Columbus, OH; Louisville, KY; Memphis, TN; Little Rock, AR; Nashville, TN; and New Orleans, LA, to name a few.


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I am my Sister's Keeper

 

 

October is "Domestic Violence Awareness Month"



Welcome
to the

"I Am Woman"
Expo 2010


Join us  Saturday, October 30th
to support
women in domestice violence

Keynote Speaker:
Janks Morton

Includes:
3rd Annual
"Real Women Like Us - Redefining Our Beauty"
Fall Fashion
Extravanga

















Positive S.I.S.T.E.R.S. presents::
The 3rd Annual
Real Woman Like Us - Redefining Our Beauty Fall Fashion Extravaganza

eflyer

Join Positive S.I.S.T.E.R.S.

in supporting

The I Am Woman Center!

 Saturday, October 30, 2010
Wayne County Community College
Downtown Campus
1001 W. Fort Street
Detroit, MI 48226

Registration: 8:30 am
Program: 9 am to 4:30 pm
 
Can you tell the face of Domestic Violence? 
     
Experience a day filled with empowering information to support men, women and teens on domestic violence and its impact on our families. Help us eradicate domestic violence from our homes!

Special Guest:
Janks Morton

Enjoy workshops, all-male panels, health screenings, community partners, fashion show, vendors and much more.
CLICK HERE for the full schedule of this FREE event.
 
Register Today at: www.positive-sisters.com

Breakfast and Lunch included!

 
For additional information contact:

Kimle Mitchell
Positive S.I.S.T.E.R.S.
(313) 402-4997






event: Sisters Acquiring Financial Empowerment (SAFE) Oct 23rd 2010



Sisters Acquiring Financial Empowerment (SAFE)

On July 30th, I had the pleasure of attending a very moving event at the Detroit Historical Museum.  It was the 4th annual Appreciation Event for Sisters Acquiring Financial Empowerment (SAFE). SAFE assists survivors of domestic violence with financial self-sufficiency.

Now I know the subject of domestic violence is not one that most folks want to talk about or even acknowledge happens, but it happens everyday and with the bad economy in our city, the number of domestic violence cases is increasing.  Can you imagine leaving your marriage or relationship on violent terms and not only is your physical body bruised, but also your financial life totally in shambles? Most people stay in an bad relationship for economic reasons. Everyone needs money - that is why most of you read this blog. SAFE is there to help women in metro Detroit gain the skills to earn a decent living and regain their lives by providing help with career mapping, resume writing, interviewing, employment rights, financial literacy, and entrepreneur skills.

Kalyn Risker
Meet Kalyn Risker

read more at: http://www.freeismylife.com/2010/09/why-im-feeling-safe-and-how-you-can-too.html 



Thursday, October 14, 2010

O/T EVENT: SAFE's Health & Wealth Expo Oct 23rd





Sisters Acquiring Financial Empowerment
                         

                               health & Wealth Expo LOGO
 

SAFE's Health and Wealth Expo
 
 
SAFE Health & Wealth Expo

Free Event!!

 
DATE: Saturday, October 23, 2010
 
TIME: 10 am - 2:00 pm
 
LOCATION: Northwest Activities Center
18100 Meyers Road
Detroit, Michigan 48235

Join us for information & resources, workshops, lunch & giveaways - All Free

Click Here to Pre-Register to Attend the Expo
 
Click on the link below or call the Expo Toll-Free Hotline
for additional information 
  
www.SafeHealthWealth.com
 
Expo Hotline: 888-225-0326
 
 
 
Click on Link Below to Reserve a Free Community Resource Table for Your Nonprofit Organization

Expo Community Resource Table Application

Please Assist the SAFE Health and Wealth Expo by Clicking on the Sponsorship Link Below 
 
 

Domestic Violence Awareness Month
October is National Domestic Violence Awareness Month
A workshop at the Expo will discuss the impact of domestic violence in our community
Sisters Acquiring Financial Empowerment
2795 E. Grand Boulevard, Suite #9
Detroit, Michigan 48211




OCT 12-17: "Cheaper To Keep Her" starring Vivica A. Fox & Brian McKnight coming to Music Hall!



I would love to know who's going because I can't. And you know how much I love Brian McKnight! :-(

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DetroitGospel.com
 
Visit www.imreadyproductions.com
Click to Buy Tickets for Cheaper To Keep Her Online
Visit www.imreadyproductions.com
 
www.IMREADYPRODUCTIONS.com Presents...
Je'Caryous Johnson's
Cheaper To Keep Her
"He had it all...Until she took everything!"
"Romantic Comedy Stage Play"

October 12-17, 2010
@ The Music Hall

Starring:

~ Vivica A. Fox ~ Brian McKnight ~ "Comedian" Jonathan Slocumb ~
~ Christian Keyes ~ Gary "G Thang" Johnson ~
From: "NAACP Award Winning Playwright" Je'Caryous Johnson

Click here to GET YOUR TICKETS at Ticketmaster.com NOW!

Tickets on sale at Box Office, all Ticketmaster outlets, ticketmaster.com
Or Call Ticketmaster [800.745.3000]
For information on events call 313.887.8500



 


 
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