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Tuesday, February 15, 2011

My 3 Tips added to "The 50 Best Marriage Tips, Ever" at @yourtango.com #labw


I read the article on Tango and decided to add my 3 cents to the conversation. You can jump over to Tango and read the rest of the article because they had some good tips on there.

Even if you aren't married, I always say it's good to drink in the knowledge of other things and especially when it comes to relationships.

Sometimes these tips made you really reflect on yourself and the things you did wrong in a prior relationship that you hope to never do again. (bringing the baggage out and things.)

So click over and check out their 50 tips [CLICK HERE] and/or read below to my three extra tips :

1. Understand what it takes to be love and learn what it takes to love your partner. (5 languages of love)

2. Men - Learn to be a man in the relationship. Women - Learn to be a woman in the relationship.
In this day in age when roles sometimes are switched, we sometimes forget what our role is in the relationship. In intimacy, we tend to not take the action our partners want us to take and in love, we don't tend to do our partners expect our role to do.

3. Laugh. At least once a week find something that will make your partner laugh.

Do you have any more tips to offer?

1 people saying something:

Chuck and Garland said...

I'd like to add...

Make your partner laugh once a day! Once a week is just not enough.

And, LEARN HOW TO ARGUE.

Men and women are going to argue in relationships because they are still two individuals with their own opinions and sometimes defending those opinions will lead to conflict. The KEY in learning how to argue is this - REMEMBER that your partner or spouse is someone that you care for on a deep level [hopefully] and winning an argument should NEVER trump that! Is an argument worth winning if you have to curse out, crush and verbally beat down the man or woman you love? Most of the time it's not. It's okay to defend your point when you disagree - but you have to have limits and you have to maintain control. Your spouse is not your enemy even though you may disagree. If the only way to win is to emotionally destroy your partner, be man or woman enough to walk away while all you've lost is THE ARGUMENT.

-Garland

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