Give Her Your Best Self
If you want to give her something, the best you can do is to actually giver her your best self. I don't mean to be yourself, whatever that lousy high school advice means. Figure out who you are at your absolute best and offer that to your woman. Be confident, successful, fit, and great in bed. That's what women really want, a guy who can meet their physical and emotional needs, not a bunch of gifts.
Give Experiences
If I had a dumpster for all of the junk I've gotten on birthdays, Christmases, anniversaries, and Valentine's Days, it would be full. Actually, I have filled a dumpster, or maybe two, because a lot of what I've gotten from friends and lovers has been tossed. It came from Hallmark or the WalMart seasonal section, had no sentimental value, and was pretty much junk. Most people in the United States, especially your wife or girlfriend, don't need more crap!
Most people prefer to have experiences rather than getting junk. I had a friend who's father gave her a hiking trip to Mt. Kilimanjaro as a graduation present. It was a life changing experience she'll always cherish. While you may not be able to provide that kind of experience for someone you love, remember that even little experiences are better than "things."
Take her into town for a special event, drive to a new spot in the country and have a picnic, or better yet take her out to do something that shows her your adventurous, edgy, or mysterious side.
Be A Man
Don't try to bribe women with gifts or use them to kiss up. When I taught high school, I received a lot of great gifts from my students. They came from the heart and I valued them. A few times, however, kids gave me presents because they thought it would get them an 'A.' They didn't get a good grade and I tossed the gifts. Women don't like guys who try to suck up and bribe them, so don't buy sappy presents when she's mad at you or send flowers if you think she's cheating.
Be a man at all times. Give your gifts in a manly way that's also consistent with your personality. And, only give them if she deserves them, not to kiss up, make up, or bribe.
Be Creative, But Not Dumb
If you can think of other ideas to say I love her, then by all means do them. In fact, if you'd like to share, please use the comments section here. However, don't do things or buy things that make you look stupid or weak. Usually this happens when you act in a way that resembles her girlfriends. For example, breaking down into tears when she gives you a gift is beta male behavior and won't make her like you.
Jonathan Storm is am alpha male, business owner, writer, speaker and consultant. He offers more information on how to say (and show) I love her or even I like her at his website.
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