As we ring in the New Year, we have to evaluate what really is true and what we're hoping to be true.
They say being single around this time of year is the most depressing time of the year there is.
I want to say to all that it doesn't have to be depressing. Use these last moments of the year to start making affirmation instead of promises of what you want to change about yourself. And don't worry. If you fall off the horse, just get back on and start back over.
By Alexandra Scott
Do you want to win back a man you lost? Go to: Win Back Your Ex Boyfriend
If you want to know how to attract the right man, here is where you want to go: Attract Your Dream Man
Copyright (c) 2011 Alexandra Scott. All Rights Reserved.
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They say being single around this time of year is the most depressing time of the year there is.
I want to say to all that it doesn't have to be depressing. Use these last moments of the year to start making affirmation instead of promises of what you want to change about yourself. And don't worry. If you fall off the horse, just get back on and start back over.
Are You Chasing After an Idealized Version of Love?
By Alexandra Scott
Over the years, I have known many women that seemed to struggle
to find the love that they were so desperately seeking. And many times, I
could see that what they were chasing did not really exist. What they
seemed to be so eager to find and so disappointed by many times, is an
idealized version of love that really only exists in a fantasy world.
I think you know what I am talking about. The kind of hot and steamy romances that you see on soap operas, in movies, and in those romance novels that are so often written by women who have never really had much success themselves.
If you have found that your love life seems to suffer more than it needs to and if you have also found that you are not finding the kind of romance that you seek... it may be because it does not really exist.
I'm all for true romance. And I do believe that any woman can find a love that is passionate and satisfying. It's just that there is a thin line between what is really possible and what it is only possible in fiction and fantasy.
It's easy to get caught up in dramatic plot lines and steamy sagas and hope that you may be able to experience something similar in your own life. However, that can sometimes come at a price that is too much to pay. And that is when a woman will pass up on the real thing and hold out for something that will never come to pass.
Truth is, love is everywhere if you are willing to look for it. And although it may seem a little less alluring than the kind that can be created in the human mind, it has its qualities that cannot be recreated as well.
There are going to be arguments in any relationship. And there are going to be times when it seems as though things are not as easy and as smooth as we want them to be. Love is not as cut and dry as you see it in films and read about in books. Even the best men are going to have their bad qualities and their habits that get on your nerves.
When you feel like you just cannot succeed when it comes to love, the question that you may need to confront is... are you chasing after an idealized version of love? Or are you seeking the real thing?
I think you know what I am talking about. The kind of hot and steamy romances that you see on soap operas, in movies, and in those romance novels that are so often written by women who have never really had much success themselves.
If you have found that your love life seems to suffer more than it needs to and if you have also found that you are not finding the kind of romance that you seek... it may be because it does not really exist.
I'm all for true romance. And I do believe that any woman can find a love that is passionate and satisfying. It's just that there is a thin line between what is really possible and what it is only possible in fiction and fantasy.
It's easy to get caught up in dramatic plot lines and steamy sagas and hope that you may be able to experience something similar in your own life. However, that can sometimes come at a price that is too much to pay. And that is when a woman will pass up on the real thing and hold out for something that will never come to pass.
Truth is, love is everywhere if you are willing to look for it. And although it may seem a little less alluring than the kind that can be created in the human mind, it has its qualities that cannot be recreated as well.
There are going to be arguments in any relationship. And there are going to be times when it seems as though things are not as easy and as smooth as we want them to be. Love is not as cut and dry as you see it in films and read about in books. Even the best men are going to have their bad qualities and their habits that get on your nerves.
When you feel like you just cannot succeed when it comes to love, the question that you may need to confront is... are you chasing after an idealized version of love? Or are you seeking the real thing?
Do you want to win back a man you lost? Go to: Win Back Your Ex Boyfriend
If you want to know how to attract the right man, here is where you want to go: Attract Your Dream Man
Copyright (c) 2011 Alexandra Scott. All Rights Reserved.
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