Cyber Monday Morning Motivation - "Happiness Is A Choice" via @monicamjones

click thru for details Cyber Monday Morning Motivation "Happiness Is A Choice" Greetings! When asked the question, "Do you want to be happy?" there are few people in the world that would answer "No."  Despite the fact that we all believe that we want happiness, our actions and thoughts often say the exact opposite.   Think about it...   We often wish for things such as good relationships, more money, a better car or home and the like. When we get those things, we may be excited at first, but before long we begin to want for something more.  There's also the common behavior of self-sabotage.  We find ourselves in a really good situation, then out of fear we tend to focus on or try to find the problems. We've become comfortable in states of crisis and chaos so that when the calm finally comes we feel the need to  conjure up some crazy.   With this being a case, we all need to take a step back and ask ourselves... "Do you REALLY want to be happy?" If so, stop getting in your own way!   Here are some things that I am working on to help me to embrace the joy that is all around me instead of focusing on what is or what could go wrong...   Focus on the big picture: Many of the small things that we focus on aren't even worth our time or energy when we look at them in comparison to the big picture.  If your spouse is loving, responsible and everything that you've always hoped and dreamed for, does it really matter that they don't put their shoes in the spot that you believe that they should go from time to time?  Take inventory of what really matters.   Watch your mouth and your mind: How we talk and think has a direct effect on what we have.  When I forget this, I put a big thick rubber band around my wrist and pop it (hard) every time I have a negative thought.  This helps to train your brain to remain on the positive. I got this idea from a book called, "The One Minute Millionaire: The Enlightened Way to Wealth" by Mark Victor Hansen and Robert G. Allen.   Speaking of wealth, I've come to realize that the only reason most of us have not reached our financial or professional potential is because of our thoughts and how we speak.   This week I challenge you to examine how your words, thoughts, actions and behaviors align with your desire for happiness. Take a close hard look. You'll be surprised at what you find. Once you discover what's holding you back, take the necessary steps to get a little bit closer to happy.   "Monday Morning Motivation" the book is Now Available at www.monicamariejones.com, www.literaryloft.com, and www.amazon.com Cyber Monday Deals! "Monday Morning Motivation" the book, makes a great gift for everyone from your middle school aged child that is being bullied and needs some extra encouragement at the beginning of each week, to your Grandmother who now lives alone and needs a little extra inspiration from time to time. As you shop for holiday deals, consider giving this gift that will change the lives of the ones that you love.   Check out the amazing deals that I have for you.... Bulk Order Sale (Today Only) This is the perfect book for your entire staff, congregation, book club or school. Take $1 off for every 10 that you buy (up to 50) AND get FREE Shipping! Buy 10 for $9/book  Buy 20 for $8/book                Buy 30 for $7/Book Buy 40 for $6/book Buy 50 OR More* for ONLY $5/BOOK!!!! **If you would like to order more than 50 copies for $5/Book (Today Only) Email: info@literaryloft.com by 11:59pm EST Monday Morning Motivation (eBook ONLY $3.99!!!!) by Monica Marie Jones by The Literary Loft Kindle Edition ~ Release Date: 2011-10-08   List Price: $3.99 Buy Now Most Sincerely, Monica Marie Jones www.monicamariejones.com  The Literary Loft www.literaryloft.com

Top Industry Experts at the Largest Divorce Event in the Midwest w/More Than 50Speakers & 8K Attendees via @thedivorceexpo

Top Industry Experts at the Largest Divorce Event in the Midwest with More Than 50 Speakers and 8,000 Attendees

DETROIT October 20, 2011 /Editor/ — The Divorce Expo (TDE), the nation’s newest consumer interest conference and expo, comes to Novi, on March 24-25 2012. The two-day event will bring together the top industry experts at the largest divorce event in the Midwest. TDE2012 will host over 50 speakers, 60 sessions across 8 subject tracks and more than 100 vendors and exhibitors.

The two-day Divorce Conference & Expo, from March 24-25 at the Suburban Collection Showplace in Novi, will explore topics such as How to Find the “right fit” Attorney, How to Tell the Children about Divorce, Dating Again, and Balancing Your Life . The event’s 8 conference tracks will focus on areas such as legal, financial, career transition, relationships, co-parenting, real estate, health,and personal care.

Confirmed keynote speakers include Christina McGhee, international Divorce Coach and parent educator,and author of ParentingApartBook, Dr. Terri Orbuch,  dubbed “The Love Doctor”, Lela Davidson, Author ofBlacklisted from the PTA,  other surprise guest.

“The Divorce Expo is the first major Divorce topic focused of its kind to hit the middle of the United States to support the vast amount of needs of the consumer considering, going through or post divorce or separation.” added Executive Producer Christine McQueen. “The conference will offer participants the opportunity to get up-to-date information from to experts presenting options, advice, or newly single moving forward solutions.”

The Divorce Expo is currently accepting vendor/exhibitor space reservation until full.

The Divorce Expo also will feature organized events and parties that will be held at or near the event venue.

About TDE

The Divorce Expo (TDE) is a new consumer event hosted by Split Partners, LLC promoting individual growth through education, interaction, and inspiration. More than 8,000 consumers enjoy the benefits of up to date relevant  information to support preparation or decisions that affect their current and future lifestyle.  All profits from TDE are reinvested into TDE’s charities, and future events.  Find TDE online at www.thedivorceexpo.com.

Media Contact:
Chris McQueen
TDE Show Management
            (734)495-3110      
cmcqueen@splitpartners.com

Guest Article: The Many Faces of Love

 
There are several types of love, according to different cultures and reasoning. Here is a quick discussion on the different kinds of love...

By Edward Hardesty 

Love is one of those human concepts that just cannot be defined by science, as it is more than an emotional state and it delves deep into the core relationship of what a human being is and how he or she relates with others. It is a familiar but strange thing altogether, and throughout the eons there has been several distinct discussions on the matter of love's meaning and what can be comprised as an element of such.

The Greeks were one of the earliest, if not the first, to classify several types of love and each classification refers to a different angle that love can take on. They generalize the idea that there is no such thing as universal love because their logical reasoning points out that love for a friend is different than love for a husband or wife.

The five different Greek classifications are as follows:

Epithumia - this is love defined as strong desire and it is usually associated with lust and sexual attraction although desire can also be the foundation of pulling individuals together that can lead to other forms of love.

Eros - this is romantic love, the love associated with the strong tide of emotions when a couple gets into full swing. This sort of love, strong of passion and longing, is mostly experienced during the first two years of a relationship where the couple longs for continuous companionship with their partner.

Storge - storge is basically affection and it is the type of love that builds well around the other forms of love. It is a safe spot for couples since it is the type of love working around the sense of belonging and acceptance. It can be regarded as a boring aspect of love since it doesn't take further actions but it can be a shield for a relationship that uses storge along with the other forms of love.

Phileo - classified as a cherishing love, it is the aspect of love that requires response from the people involved and it is usually associated with friendship. It is the type of love that tackles an active relationship where the two individuals build on camaraderie, sharing, and strong communication and through this companionship they build a strong sense of trust.

Agape - agape is unconditional love, where one accepts to love the other despite their differences, despite all the conditions, despite the mistakes and hardships and this is usually the love that marriage strives to reach and it is the love that many associate with a higher being.

The five types of Greek love are the common forms of love that many associate their emotions with since they are the more popular classifications and since they have been distinguished very few have tried to work separately from these concepts. Love has many different faces but even the Greek agreed that a perfect relationship - which in turn might be impossible to attain - is one which reflects all five faces and it is the idealistic goal that everyone should strive to live and love for.

Article Source: http://EzineArticles.com/?expert=Edward_Hardesty

Top Industry Experts at the Largest Divorce Event in the Midwest w/More Than 50Speakers & 8K Attendees via @thedivorceexpo

Top Industry Experts at the Largest Divorce Event in the Midwest with More Than 50 Speakers and 8,000 Attendees

DETROIT October 20, 2011 /Editor/ — The Divorce Expo (TDE), the nation’s newest consumer interest conference and expo, comes to Novi, on March 24-25 2012. The two-day event will bring together the top industry experts at the largest divorce event in the Midwest. TDE2012 will host over 50 speakers, 60 sessions across 8 subject tracks and more than 100 vendors and exhibitors.

The two-day Divorce Conference & Expo, from March 24-25 at the Suburban Collection Showplace in Novi, will explore topics such as How to Find the “right fit” Attorney, How to Tell the Children about Divorce, Dating Again, and Balancing Your Life . The event’s 8 conference tracks will focus on areas such as legal, financial, career transition, relationships, co-parenting, real estate, health,and personal care.

Confirmed keynote speakers include Christina McGhee, international Divorce Coach and parent educator,and author of ParentingApartBook, Dr. Terri Orbuch,  dubbed “The Love Doctor”, Lela Davidson, Author ofBlacklisted from the PTA,  other surprise guest.

“The Divorce Expo is the first major Divorce topic focused of its kind to hit the middle of the United States to support the vast amount of needs of the consumer considering, going through or post divorce or separation.” added Executive Producer Christine McQueen. “The conference will offer participants the opportunity to get up-to-date information from to experts presenting options, advice, or newly single moving forward solutions.”

The Divorce Expo is currently accepting vendor/exhibitor space reservation until full.

The Divorce Expo also will feature organized events and parties that will be held at or near the event venue.

About TDE

The Divorce Expo (TDE) is a new consumer event hosted by Split Partners, LLC promoting individual growth through education, interaction, and inspiration. More than 8,000 consumers enjoy the benefits of up to date relevant  information to support preparation or decisions that affect their current and future lifestyle.  All profits from TDE are reinvested into TDE’s charities, and future events.  Find TDE online at www.thedivorceexpo.com.

Media Contact:
Chris McQueen
TDE Show Management
            (734)495-3110      
cmcqueen@splitpartners.com

[comic] M Thru F: Well When You Put It That Way, Life Seems So Much Simpler

M Thru F: Well When You Put It That Way, Life Seems So Much Simpler

A Worthy Sacrifice -The Single Heart Daily Devotional from Author, Kimberley Brooks

click thru for details ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ The Single Heart Online Daily Devotional   "A daily dose of the Word of God to encourage single Christian women"                                            Issue 520                                                                                                                                       ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~   Kim Brooks Good Morning Octavia,    Offer the sacrifices of righteousness, and put your trust in the Lord.  Psalm 4:5 Though this Scripture contains only one sentence, it actually says a mouthful.  It admonishes us, as believers, to offer the sacrifices of righteousness.  Living holy, or "right" in an unholy world can be quite challenging.  Especially when the media and the world around you throws sexual images in your face all the time, and when it also is an unspoken "expectation" among couples after a few dates to have sex (which is again why it's important to set the abstinence expectation up front so no one will try to "go there" with you).  However, it is possible.  With God all things are possible, right? Jesus sacrificed His body, something He actually didn't want to do as He cried out in the Garden of Gethsemane,  ...O my Father, if it be possible, let this cup pass from me... (Matthew 26:39)  He knew what was about to go down because Jesus read the book, and He knew He was about to be beaten so badly that afterwards He wouldn't even resemble a man.  (Isaiah 52:14) But, in spite of how hard it was on His flesh, He did it anyway.  He realized the reward was much greater than the sacrifice. In the same matter, we are to offer our bodies as living sacrifices, holy and acceptable unto God (Romans 12:1) Our flesh may not like it, may not want to do it, and may even remind us from time to time in our daily walk that our bodies crave another warm body, but, we must remain pure and holy before God in our Christian walk, anyway, because we realize our reward in heaven and on earth is greater than the sacrifice. As we offer the sacrifice of righteousness with our lives, we trust that He will bless us, He will keep us, He will reward us. **If this blessed you please forward to at least 3 single friends and spread the love.**   About Kim Brooks ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ Licensed Minister, songwriter, workshop presenter and Award-winning author, Kim Brooks of Detroit, MI is the Black Expressions Bestselling author of several books including her newest advice book for singles, How To Date and Stay Saved, The Little Black Survival Book for Single Saints, and Christian Fiction novels, He's Fine...But is He Saved? and its sequel, He's Saved...But is He For Real? To read more about her books and ministry, visit www.Kimontheweb.com and to read free excerpts from her newest book, visit www.DateAndStaySaved.com   Follow Kim Online:    "Like" her Fan Page       Follow her on Twitter         Subscribe to her YouTube Chanel                                           ***************  Did Someone Forward You This Email and Now You'd Like To Subscribe To Receive Your Daily Dose of Encouragement as aSingle Woman from author/minister Kim Brooks to Your Email InboxEvery Single Day?  Then Click Here to Subscribe for absolutely FREE!       Need a Vacation?   7-Day Eastern Carribean Cruise     I'll be conducting a relationship workshop and ministering on A.S. Hendrix Travel's all-inclusive 7 day Eastern Carribbean cruise departing on Carnival Glory March 25, 2012 - April 1, 2012.  Join Us on the Twenty12 Cruise! Mention "Kim Brooks" and find out how to get a free eBook of mine.  Visit http://r20.rs6.net/tn.jsp?llr=n5ij69bab&et=1108650213145&s=4176&e=001kZKgdpzqigp0tRgS7ZsqML08TTgMVLSlJdYNj11-xVU6f47TUAI3LIRZEjyL5kbxo882Xyp_0kW7st6uGdD5yOVFBE_tO-gLS6JRysxmj5BjpJK21xx0ew==  or call Adren Hendrix 1-800-845-7349 today for more info.  Hope to see you on the boat!  *************    Got Jesus For Real?  Not Sure?  Click Here   1/2 OFF! Read How To Date and Stay Saved as an eBook and order it online for 1/2 off the retail price of the physical book.  Order today and download all 199 pages of it immediately at  www.DateAndStaySaved.com